
"Our small, soft hands blistered quickly at the start of each summer, but Daddy never let us wear gloves, which he considered a sign of weakness. After a few weeks of constant work, the bloody blisters gave way to hard-earned calluses that protected us from pain. Long after the fact, it occurred to me that was a metaphor for life -- blisters come before calluses, vulnerability before maturity - but not even the thickest of skins could have spared us the lash of Daddy's tongue. "I could do more with a teaspoon than you can do with a shovel," he snapped whenever we were shoveling dirt. "You worth less than a carload of dead men." He never praised us, just as he never hugged us. Whenever my grandmother urged him to tell us that we had done a good job, he replied, "That's their responsibility. Any job worth doing is worth doing right."
Clarence Thomas
My Grandfather's Son
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